I am reading C. Peter Wagner’s book Taking Our Cities For God.
He writes:

When we are single we long for the intimacy of marriage—just to have somebody to have somebody of “my own.” We fantasize about moments of emotional and physical intimacy. Eventually we may bet married and face the reality of actually dividing our time, money and space with another person. That’s when we discover how much we really need Jesus.(206)

The emphasis is mine.